It’s kinda funny, by that I mean not funny at all. You are a stranger I don’t know you and you don’t know me. If you want to get to know someone you will ask questions. Almost like 20 questions except more like what you like and what your preferences are. The dislikes need to be known as well. Don’t feel like you have to live up to a certain expectation. Just be real, You can pretend, but then eventually that info is brought to the surface. I can ask you everyday How and what your doing but that is still not getting to know me and vice versa.